Concern Uncle
June 4, 1992, exactly the day I was born. Although born in June, the family gave me the name of "Yulianti". The reason is very simple naming is so named not because of twin brothers who lived in the house behind his name is Yuni. My name is quite short and often become the laughingstock of friends. However, it is easier for my name when filling out the identity of such on the exam answer sheet. I am very grateful to be born in this world with the name Yulianti and have families who care for me.
A mother who gave birth to me named Mariana and my dad named Ibn Hisan. Both my parents worked as traders in the market of household equipment Kutoarjo. We stayed in the village Bayem RT 03, RW 03, Kecamatan Kutoarjo, Purworejo district. Home of my parents house occupied dealing with my uncle who named Nursalim, my grandmother called Markhumah, and my dad's sister named Nursalimah.
I have a younger brother named Revelation Aprilliyanto that now has traveled a Grade 2 education school in SMA Negeri 1 Purworejo. My sister was born on April 28, 1994. Age we are quite short distances while parents work we require that they work from morning to evening. It makes our parents feel the rush and sense of caring brother we also arise. My uncle advised me to stay alone in his house. Both my parents approve of it. Since then, I lived not in my parents house.
Expenses parents sayapun reduced because from then on they went to the market just took my younger brother. My home was raised by my father's sister (Nursalimah). I take care of it was he that started from my sleep until I wake to sleep again. He is changing my pants, I make milk, and he also who accompanied me to sleep.
But it did not last long because he had migrated to the capital city of Indonesia to work. So after that, things involving me taken care of by my uncle (Nursalim). Accompanied their living habits (Nursalimah and Nursalim) makes me think that they are my parents. When I was about 5 years, if anyone asks who my parents so quickly I mention their names as my parents. It was probably my mind that there are people who are always there beside me. When I was little, my mindset is still too simple and I do not know the answer to that question hurt my parents or not. Obviously I know the time, the answer is to make my uncle happy smile. Perhaps he felt his good care of me appreciated. I am not considering the feelings of my parents when I was not indirectly consider them as my parents. Hopefully my parents do not respond to a serious answer to a child who is still innocent.
My parents are too busy with his work. They were off only when the holiday Eid Eid second day. If there is a fairly important family events, mostly only visited by one of them. It made me think that my parents did not love and do not care about me. They do not have time for me. Maybe it was not perceived by my brother because he was the one who brought my parents work and live with him.
After I was growing up, I felt very guilty because it was so negative about my parents. I should be thankful for having parents who are willing to work hard for my brother and me. They wanted my brother and I fulfilled her needs and be educated as high as possible. Apparently they were so concerned about me. So stupid my mindset first. I can now realize that my parents work as traders cause they can not work due to holiday with their holidays feared they would lose customers.
Until I was growing up, I still lived at home my uncle. However, now I've been studying in Yogyakarta. However, if I go home so I still slept in my uncle's house. I had some time to talk seriously by my mother. My mother wanted me to stay home. For me it is very difficult to be decided. In making decisions considering the two feelings I have people I love are my mother and uncle. I finally tried a few days staying at my parents' house. It turned out that I really used to staying with the rules in my uncle's house so I did not get a sense of comfortable living in my parents' house. It made me decide to go back to my uncle's house. In my opinion, no one to blame in this situation should even this is a beautiful gift for my family because without realizing it with my stay at my uncle's house silahturahmi cause no interruption between my parents with my uncle and my grandmother.
But honestly, I never really wanted to leave my uncle's house and lived with her parents. I want a life like my friends who live the same roof with her parents. However, I must not be selfish. My uncle was so concerned with my life. He also helped fulfill my life. Not only that, my uncle also had to sacrifice a lot of time to me. God is so fair, my parents could not accompany me when I need to replace it with the presence of God but my uncle who was always beside me. I can not imagine how the destruction of the feeling after a great uncle to me if I lived in my parents' house. I like nothing the slightest gratitude to my uncle if until it happened. It was that I resolved to stay with my uncle. Even so, I'm not one to lack of affection from my parents because they are easily at night, I can go to my parents' house and meet with them.
I assume my uncle as his own son. I can understand it because he has been caring for me from the small and moreover he was not married till now. My uncle is the first child of five children. Now her sisters have married and have a baby but he remains a strong stance to remain unmarried. I also gained a family even had to persuade her to get married but to no avail. The family was so concerned with my Uncle. Families are concerned with the decision taken by my Uncle. Therefore, when the family had to find a future wife to my uncle but did not fit with my uncle heart. Everything has come and persuade my uncle advised but to no avail. In my opinion, he still feels responsible for mother and younger siblings because he was the oldest son and his father, which means My grandfather died when he was starting work and her sisters were little. At that time, all the responsibilities Her father was automatically replaced by my uncle. My uncle was so concerned with the interests of his family until he subordinated his own interests.
I feel guilty to see choices made by my uncle. My presence in the life of my uncle like my uncle also resolved to remain unmarried because my uncle have regarded me as his son. Even once upon a time, my uncle expressed his intention to me to appoint me as his son. Spontaneously I reject it. Not because I do not care about the feelings of my uncle, but because I also care about the feelings of my parents. I assume stay home with my uncle that was enough to appreciate him. Perhaps my affection for my uncle so much to me so that he does not drive me mad even though I do not accept permintaanya to become his adopted son.
My parents always advised me to be respectful towards my uncle. They taught me to appreciate my Uncle. I reminded my uncle is not too burdensome. I understand the purpose of my parents reminded of that. During this time, I always ask for something good that actually is not too important and the price is quite expensive to my uncle. I should not be casually asked my uncle to buy everything I want. I have to pay attention to the needs of my uncle also certainly quite a lot. I should be able to be mature.
Now I was in college and living alone as a child in boarding house in Yogyakarta. I was educated S1 at Yogyakarta State University and majored in Electronic Engineering Education with Computer Science Education courses. Who find a boarding place I am not my parents but my uncle. Who often visited and contacted me via SMS and phone is my uncle not my parents. It really test my mature attitude. I feel my uncle is more concerned about me than my parents. However, after I tell this problem to the closest friends, I began to realize that I was so happy because a lot of love and care about me. Actually it is not the intention of my parents to not contact me on an ongoing basis. They're just afraid of disturbing me. If during the day, they want to contact me, that's when I'm in college and they also are working to serve buyers in the market. If the night the day, they want to contact me, that's when I was studying and working on assignments and they also need a break after a tired working all day. Maybe that's what my parents dipikiran. And this is also my fault because I did not try to contact them in advance.
I thank you for all the kindness of my uncle has been trying to be a substitute for my parents. I always pray that all the goodness of my uncle who was so concerned with the development and growth of penalty do I get even more from the people around him and Allah SWT. And I apologize to my parents when I could not live with them and sometimes let them down. I love all my family who have care and love me.
A mother who gave birth to me named Mariana and my dad named Ibn Hisan. Both my parents worked as traders in the market of household equipment Kutoarjo. We stayed in the village Bayem RT 03, RW 03, Kecamatan Kutoarjo, Purworejo district. Home of my parents house occupied dealing with my uncle who named Nursalim, my grandmother called Markhumah, and my dad's sister named Nursalimah.
I have a younger brother named Revelation Aprilliyanto that now has traveled a Grade 2 education school in SMA Negeri 1 Purworejo. My sister was born on April 28, 1994. Age we are quite short distances while parents work we require that they work from morning to evening. It makes our parents feel the rush and sense of caring brother we also arise. My uncle advised me to stay alone in his house. Both my parents approve of it. Since then, I lived not in my parents house.
Expenses parents sayapun reduced because from then on they went to the market just took my younger brother. My home was raised by my father's sister (Nursalimah). I take care of it was he that started from my sleep until I wake to sleep again. He is changing my pants, I make milk, and he also who accompanied me to sleep.
But it did not last long because he had migrated to the capital city of Indonesia to work. So after that, things involving me taken care of by my uncle (Nursalim). Accompanied their living habits (Nursalimah and Nursalim) makes me think that they are my parents. When I was about 5 years, if anyone asks who my parents so quickly I mention their names as my parents. It was probably my mind that there are people who are always there beside me. When I was little, my mindset is still too simple and I do not know the answer to that question hurt my parents or not. Obviously I know the time, the answer is to make my uncle happy smile. Perhaps he felt his good care of me appreciated. I am not considering the feelings of my parents when I was not indirectly consider them as my parents. Hopefully my parents do not respond to a serious answer to a child who is still innocent.
My parents are too busy with his work. They were off only when the holiday Eid Eid second day. If there is a fairly important family events, mostly only visited by one of them. It made me think that my parents did not love and do not care about me. They do not have time for me. Maybe it was not perceived by my brother because he was the one who brought my parents work and live with him.
After I was growing up, I felt very guilty because it was so negative about my parents. I should be thankful for having parents who are willing to work hard for my brother and me. They wanted my brother and I fulfilled her needs and be educated as high as possible. Apparently they were so concerned about me. So stupid my mindset first. I can now realize that my parents work as traders cause they can not work due to holiday with their holidays feared they would lose customers.
Until I was growing up, I still lived at home my uncle. However, now I've been studying in Yogyakarta. However, if I go home so I still slept in my uncle's house. I had some time to talk seriously by my mother. My mother wanted me to stay home. For me it is very difficult to be decided. In making decisions considering the two feelings I have people I love are my mother and uncle. I finally tried a few days staying at my parents' house. It turned out that I really used to staying with the rules in my uncle's house so I did not get a sense of comfortable living in my parents' house. It made me decide to go back to my uncle's house. In my opinion, no one to blame in this situation should even this is a beautiful gift for my family because without realizing it with my stay at my uncle's house silahturahmi cause no interruption between my parents with my uncle and my grandmother.
But honestly, I never really wanted to leave my uncle's house and lived with her parents. I want a life like my friends who live the same roof with her parents. However, I must not be selfish. My uncle was so concerned with my life. He also helped fulfill my life. Not only that, my uncle also had to sacrifice a lot of time to me. God is so fair, my parents could not accompany me when I need to replace it with the presence of God but my uncle who was always beside me. I can not imagine how the destruction of the feeling after a great uncle to me if I lived in my parents' house. I like nothing the slightest gratitude to my uncle if until it happened. It was that I resolved to stay with my uncle. Even so, I'm not one to lack of affection from my parents because they are easily at night, I can go to my parents' house and meet with them.
I assume my uncle as his own son. I can understand it because he has been caring for me from the small and moreover he was not married till now. My uncle is the first child of five children. Now her sisters have married and have a baby but he remains a strong stance to remain unmarried. I also gained a family even had to persuade her to get married but to no avail. The family was so concerned with my Uncle. Families are concerned with the decision taken by my Uncle. Therefore, when the family had to find a future wife to my uncle but did not fit with my uncle heart. Everything has come and persuade my uncle advised but to no avail. In my opinion, he still feels responsible for mother and younger siblings because he was the oldest son and his father, which means My grandfather died when he was starting work and her sisters were little. At that time, all the responsibilities Her father was automatically replaced by my uncle. My uncle was so concerned with the interests of his family until he subordinated his own interests.
I feel guilty to see choices made by my uncle. My presence in the life of my uncle like my uncle also resolved to remain unmarried because my uncle have regarded me as his son. Even once upon a time, my uncle expressed his intention to me to appoint me as his son. Spontaneously I reject it. Not because I do not care about the feelings of my uncle, but because I also care about the feelings of my parents. I assume stay home with my uncle that was enough to appreciate him. Perhaps my affection for my uncle so much to me so that he does not drive me mad even though I do not accept permintaanya to become his adopted son.
My parents always advised me to be respectful towards my uncle. They taught me to appreciate my Uncle. I reminded my uncle is not too burdensome. I understand the purpose of my parents reminded of that. During this time, I always ask for something good that actually is not too important and the price is quite expensive to my uncle. I should not be casually asked my uncle to buy everything I want. I have to pay attention to the needs of my uncle also certainly quite a lot. I should be able to be mature.
Now I was in college and living alone as a child in boarding house in Yogyakarta. I was educated S1 at Yogyakarta State University and majored in Electronic Engineering Education with Computer Science Education courses. Who find a boarding place I am not my parents but my uncle. Who often visited and contacted me via SMS and phone is my uncle not my parents. It really test my mature attitude. I feel my uncle is more concerned about me than my parents. However, after I tell this problem to the closest friends, I began to realize that I was so happy because a lot of love and care about me. Actually it is not the intention of my parents to not contact me on an ongoing basis. They're just afraid of disturbing me. If during the day, they want to contact me, that's when I'm in college and they also are working to serve buyers in the market. If the night the day, they want to contact me, that's when I was studying and working on assignments and they also need a break after a tired working all day. Maybe that's what my parents dipikiran. And this is also my fault because I did not try to contact them in advance.
I thank you for all the kindness of my uncle has been trying to be a substitute for my parents. I always pray that all the goodness of my uncle who was so concerned with the development and growth of penalty do I get even more from the people around him and Allah SWT. And I apologize to my parents when I could not live with them and sometimes let them down. I love all my family who have care and love me.
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